Lily Rebrik
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Four-year-old Polina Pinchuk will be saved by heart surgery.Four-year-old Polina Pinchuk urgently needs help: the girl has a progressive heart disease, due to which the baby is weakening and suffocating. An endovascular operation with the installation of an occluder, a special device that will close the hole in the girl’s little heart, will save Polinka and restore her health. However, the child’s parents do not have the opportunity to raise the amount needed to purchase an occluder. Thanks to your help, dear friends of Ufond, part of the funds has already been raised, but the total amount of the operation is large and it still has to be collected in its entirety. We are talking about Polina’s illness, trust in doctors and the secrets of raising a happy child, with the actress, host of the most popular Ukrainian talent show "Everybody Dances" Lilia Rebrik. - Fortunately, modern medical techniques allow us to successfully cope with the treatment of heart disease, and Field will have a gentle, almost painless operation, and rehabilitation will take several days. And it inspires hope for a speedy recovery of the girl. Tell me, Lily, do you believe that hope is a real force that materializes?- I believe in the power of thought and tell my loved ones that it is very important to have a positive attitude, especially if someone is sick. Who, no matter how close people should be strong in spirit, courageous and do not allow the slightest doubt that something could go wrong. And you need to think not at all about something positive, but specifically: you need to choose verbs, know what exactly you want. And send this thought into space. I believe that then everything will come true: circumstances will develop, people will meet whose hearts will respond. And then, bit by bit, up there, all efforts will come together into one big bright work that can work wonders. - Tell me, Lily, and in your life there was a case when your hopes were completely fulfilled? - I, like every woman, had a desire to have a child. And I will say: when a woman wants a child, when she and a man really want to add to the family, then everything happens. Thought is material. And what about the problems? It happens that I get sick, but I try not to pay attention to illnesses, I am always full of spirit. In addition, I have a job that requires: "you have to be in line." I remember that when I had surgery a couple of years ago, my parents realized that I was really sick only when I went to the operating table, because everyone around me was sure: "Lily is strong, she’s always fine." It seems to me that this is a wonderful position, when you have enough strength and inner core to go through everything, because we are given only such trials that we are able to withstand with dignity. - The installation of the occluder, which must be done by the Field, is no longer a serious cavity operation, after which there were many complications. However, parents continue to fear surgery, perhaps because they know little about the clinic’s specialists. Please tell, whats the story of them big puppys ..... - It is very important. And I would advise Polina’s mother to be guided by intuition: if the heart responds, you see a person’s eyes, you see his hands, you listen to his words, and you believe him - this is your doctor. A woman is a wise creature, especially when it comes to the child, the mother’s maternal instinct is activated, and he is able to work miracles. Some special knowledge appears. I was convinced of this because my intuition simply blossomed after Diana was born. Unfortunately, our hospitals, clinics and maternity hospitals often have poor financial conditions. But, on the other hand, very good specialists work in these conditions. And you don’t have to look at their age. There is an opinion: if the doctor is older, then - more experienced, but this is not always the case. Now there are many young ambitious, worthwhile professionals who are actively developing. I think you can trust them, you need to listen to their recommendations. But recovery is a team effort of everyone: the doctor, the parents, the child. And when this team works well and smoothly, then a miracle of recovery happens. Yes, this process is not always painless, but it is life. - Due to the difficult financial situation in the country, many people whose families have sick relatives turn for help on social networks, volunteers, charitable foundations. Do you trust these stories? Are you trying to help? - Every day on Facebook I receive so many requests for help! But I understand that it is impossible to really respond to all the stories, I am not an oligarch, I would be an oligarch - I helped everyone. I don’t repost, but I try to help whenever possible, and I never talk about it, I do it very quietly. It’s very important for me to just help, not make a fuss about it. - Are you interested in the future of the person you helped? - Of course, I really want to know the news of recovery. It’s easier on the heart when you read, "Thank you to everyone who responded because we survived." And nothing more is needed. I believe that we have a responsive people, the Slavs are heartbroken people, we know how to have compassion and help, and survive, to join hands to be stronger. I believe that Polina’s operation will be successful. I don’t even allow another option. And I really want to read about it as soon as possible. So I am for such sites, with feedback! - Have you had to communicate with people who overcame the disease? - Fortunately, I am not a frequent visitor to hospitals. But looking at people who have been able to overcome a serious illness, I am charged with a kind of life-affirming optimism. I remember when wheelchair participants came to us on the show "Everybody Dances", I cried all the interviews, but I came out of the meeting so strong! I thought, "My God, we have arms and legs, we don’t even understand what happiness is - health." Just appreciate it, cherish what you have and rejoice in every moment of your life. - Lily, your daughter Diana is growing up. Could you share your secrets on how to raise a child so that he can confidently go through life and not be afraid of difficulties? - My most important task as a mother is to teach a child to be happy. And I can teach her to be happy only by my example. Because this is exactly how a child, on the example of parents, develops a scheme of life, worldview, relationships. Is it possible or not? .. I think the child does not need to be brought up, you just need to love, guide, support. To be a friend, not to become Baba Yaga, to be in touch, to be easy. These are my principles. It seems to me that Polinochka is not strong by age, because she is already going through some difficult moments, and she feels everything much sharper than her peers. I am sure that everything will be fine, the operation will be successful, and Polina will feel all the joys of a healthy life and will be able to make important decisions in her life, guided by the heart. I want to advise everyone: Polly’s parents, and all those who face difficulties, not to waste mental energy on experiences, because then we turn around and think: it was not worth it. So I really want to wish Pauline and her family ease in life. And so that all the problems are soon left behind, and the family feels: we have experienced it with dignity and we have many bright days ahead.
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